I’m very much grown now, and I’m absolutely loving it. It took a while for me to get this way, but it’s only the beginning. I try to do something different every year, but now the years actually mean something. I’m 20, in college, time is ticking on adulthood, not to mention I’m already in it.
Boy issues… um, I wish. Or just to actually have a functioning guy speak actual sense. I don’t know why we have dumbed ourselves down (including girls) to impress others. I want to have a genuine conversation about, I don’t know, life, your interests, favorite color. Is it that hard? Who told us it was cool to see something we like and either not pursue it, or do but give interest until you figure out if the girl is going to let you have sex or not, only to end up moving on after that’s over?
GUYS, we are only getting older. The whole “I’m not ready for a relationship” is so last season. Get over yourself. It’s not weak to actually want to find someone and experience the aspect of love. Not everyone’s heart is in it the same way yours is, or mine for that matter, but experiencing people’s presence is a gift in itself. Understanding we live life once will wake sleeping men, yes, YOLO life, but don’t throw it away for temporary fun that is a “trend.” Do things you want to do; it’s your life.
If you’re worried about what your friends are going to say, THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. This is your life. This is my life. Do I get embarrassed sometimes? Yes. But who is keeping count of the many times you’ve embarrassed yourself? (I hope just you.) No one is better than anyone, and acting that way makes you boring. Who is going to tell me not to talk to whoever I want to talk to? NO ONE.
Anywho, I’m tired now. Tootles.
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